Friday, February 20, 2009

Another MMS scandal shocks the nation

In another shocking incident an MBA student in Noida sent out a video clip of his 23 year-old-girlfriend doing striptease for him to his classmates. The girl had allegedly refused to marry him. The clip has now become one of the hottest searches on the internet and is available on most MMS sites. The incident has reminded us of the DPS MMS scandal some years ago.

Now a chain of blame game will start from the educational institute to the person who invented camera phones, all will be blamed. Many 'custodians of culture' and 'over caring parents' will even demand the banning of camera phones and internet among ADULTS (at 23 these people were no youngster). Now the questions is technology to be blamed here?

No Sir, technology is for use and not for abuse. The culprit here are two individuals and not the entire students community. I don't want to sound like an anti-feminist but I blame the girl more here for her act. Was stripping the only option left for her to express love towards her boyfriend? Now the guy will surely be booked under cyber crime and other acts of the IPC but for the girl she had already been booked under shame and disgrace.

Being born in India the girl would have surely heard the phrase “for a woman her honour is her most precious ornament” but modernity has made many of us insane. The girl in question is just another example. She was the first custodian of her honour and dignity but she didn't care enough for it. Had this same girl been manhandled on the road the entire government and the police would have been blamed. Can the government or the police protect the honour of such individuals?

The point is police and the government are not always responsible for our sufferings. We individuals should me more responsible for ourselves before pointing the figure at the government. Many of us should shed away lifestyle which invites trouble in the name of modernity.

It is very important to evolve both culturally and socially but the pace for such things have to be set right. The society is no culprit for the shameless act of two individuals. They have just abused both technology and their freedom. To be honest the society is biased towards the darker sex so woman need to put in that extra effort not to invite trouble.

4 comments:

moffyTOTS February 20, 2009 at 9:14 PM  

sab kuch gaya bhaad mein..temme which insti ????

moffyTOTS February 21, 2009 at 7:32 AM  

kaandogyan naaai eraar...

freakyparo February 25, 2009 at 5:42 PM  

Why is it that every time such an incident occurs its the girl who is chastized? Why is only the girl confined to preserving an nurturing Indian values and culture? Mr. Bhattacharjee, what people do inside their bedrooms is entirely upto them. U and I are not to advise them on the ways of showing affection!!It was disgustingly cheap on the part of the guy to have cheated on the girl's trust!!!

Subhadeep Bhattacharjee February 27, 2009 at 9:45 AM  

why on earth did the gal do a nude dance in front of such a moron was she insane? i dnt blame the gal but she has to face more music than the guy now so she should have been more alert. Thats my point

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